But every now and then arranging a date night can take the pressure off the man to plan everything.
When we consistently say terrible and negative things about ourselves, sooner or later, it brings these notions into fruition and our man will inevitably begin to believe them…and even worse, so might you.
You can have any reason you like for not wanting kids -- a desire to keep your life for yourself, a dislike of children, a fear of pregnancy.
Even then we will still make mistakes.